...i just wanna dance...

so by the title you would assume that this post is self-explanatory, but there are two parts to it in fact.

[1] i hate the stupid guys at clubs these days. i'm not a big "clubber" but me and my girlfriends do enjoy going down to places like chillers to get cheap drinks and dance. but why is it that guys no longer feel a need to ask you to dance they just assume because they have a penis that it is their inherint right to dance with you...hrmm...and lets see, if a guy does decide to so rudly come up and dance with me without asking, why is it necessary for him to feel me up on the dance floor? when did dry sex become dancing? i remember the days of the macareana and the train! days when sure there was grinding but i mean people these day are insane on the dance floor, in fact i'm sure some of the girls i saw there last week left with a bun in the oven. what happened to all the nice guys? did they all decide that the "nice" thing wasn't working out for them and become assholes? i've danced with enough assholes, hell i've dated enough assholes! for once it'd be refreshing for a guy to ask me to dance, to buy me a drink just because he wants an excuse to talk, tell me i'm beautiful, make me feel like i'm the only one in the room and all without an alterial motive....*sigh*

[2] i'm 21, i'll be 22 in 4 months, so i'm not exactly a kid but i don't quite consider myself all grown up either. but i am to the point where i'd like to do more than just club type dancing. i want to dance, really dance. i know how to do the basic waltz and what not and if i am taught a dance, no matter how complicated the steps, i will master it, perfect it but i am a bit of a control freak and have never learned simple to dance, with out a pre concived set of steps, i've never been able to just "go with the flow" so to speak. i just want someone to dance with, someone who won't make fun of me (too much) when i start to go one way b/c thats the way we went last time...i want someone i can dance with till we can't dance anymore and we fall to the ground laughing...impossible? so far, yes. once again, *sigh*